If you walk into my closet on a Sunday morning, you’ll likely find a pile of discarded clothes on the floor. I'll try on several outfits before deciding what to wear out on Saturday night.
Why is getting dressed for a simple evening out with friends always so challenging for me? How can I have a closet full of clothes, yet still feel like I have nothing to wear?
The simple solution may seem like I need to go shopping. However, the better choice is a closet purge.
“Purging your closet can create more space, making it easier to see what you own and find things quickly,” explains Alison Lumbatis, a podcaster, author and style-confidence pro. "This can save time and reduce decision fatigue.”
In addition, a closet purge can be an emotional boost. “A decluttered closet feels like a fresh start,” she says. “It’s a chance to let go of guilt, stress or outdated self-perceptions tied to old clothes. The process often leads to greater clarity and confidence about your personal style.”
With the spring season finally here, I am ready to roll up my sleeves and do a deep dive, finally purging the following five items that clog my closet:
1. Impulse Regret Buys
These are the pieces that I have purchased (some still with the tags on) and never worn, even though I have owned them for a significant amount of time. They mostly sit gathering dust in the back of the closet, getting no love. Or, if I do try them on, they end up disregarded on the floor pile because they don’t fit right, don't flatter, or aren't comfortable. "People hold onto certain pieces because of the guilt associated with the cost,” says Lumbatis. “Letting it go feels like admitting to a mistake."
But what’s the point if a piece of clothing sits in your closet, creating clutter and not getting worn? "To overcome the guilt, reframe it," she says. "Tell yourself that the item served its purpose the moment it taught you more about what doesn't work for you.”
2. That Comfy Sweater with the Hole in It